i just got back home.
met up with andy in the late afternoon.
we just sat downstairs my place and talked.
realised we both face similar problems in life.
hope i provided a good listening ear today.

oh wells, if i can get over the 'lifelong' family issue, i'm positive you can do so too.
and, everyone's an individual and we're all different no matter how similar some people can be to one another, thus, you get my point dont you?
pretty much emphasized that thru' out the 3hrs and i feel utterly naggy.
just remember that if you know you did nothing wrong and everything reasonable, stand firm and make her understand.
it's pointless if you keep giving in and she'll just continue taking advantage of your soft-heartedness.
i might not know her side of the story, but the situation now seems to be one constantly giving, and the other just accepts with arms wide open.
this is nowhere close to compromising.
*anyway, whatever decisions you make, please make sure that what you're doing for her is really worth it. all i want for you is to be happy. i really dont wanna see that dejected look on your face again.
could see how you were trying to give me those lil' faint smiles. i dont want those. i just need one smile which radiates from within to tell me that you are truly happy.

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i absolutely disagree with how some girls assume that their boyfriends should pay for all their expenses.
i'm absolutely surprised by how some girls just get annoyed and quarrel with their boyfriends over some puny issue of them having to pay for a few bucks of cabby fare.
i'm absolutely bewildered by how some girls admit and apologise for being demanding and materialistic but yet not do anything abt it and thinks it's right for every girlfriend to be like that.
lastly, i'm absolutely disgusted with some girls who tell their boyfriends that if they cannot afford to have a girlfriend, dont have one.

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*i'm sorry dear.