there really is NO point in sticking it out in a relationship that hurts very bad, and it's much better to just get up and go in spite of what everyone may think.
 

you have attained enlightenment...*claps* and WHAT HAPPEN TO MY LINK BYTCH!?!
 

hey i think i know how you're feeling dearie. just wanted you to know that yer not alone ! the wisest thing is probably to try to see yourself as an individual, your own person, rather than just the other half of something else. know what i mean ? when the other half isnt doing his job, you wont have to feel incomplete. err i dunno if i made sense at all haha, but just hang in there yeah :)